Ask kids to say what they're thinking and feeling. Label some of your own feelings. This makes it easier for kids to share theirs. Say things like, "I know you're feeling very sad. I'm sad, too. We both loved Grandma so much, and she loved us too. Tell your child what to expect. If the death of a loved one means changes in your child's life or routine, explain what will happen. This helps your child feel prepared. For example, "Aunt Sara will pick you up from school like Grandma used to.
That means you and Dad will be home taking care of each other. But I'll talk to you every day, and I'll be back on Sunday. Explain events that will happen. Allow children to join in rituals like viewings, funerals, or memorial services. Tell them ahead of time what will happen.
For example, "Lots of people who loved Grandma will be there. We will sing, pray, and talk about Grandma's life. People might cry and hug. They might say to us, 'I'm sorry for your loss. For example, Kate could say, "Sarah, I'm sorry about your grandma. That's a way for Kate to let Sarah know that she feels sad for her. It may help Sarah start talking about her feelings.
But it's also OK if Sarah doesn't want to talk much about it. Kate also could simply say: "If you want to talk about it, I will listen.
Don't be surprised if your friend doesn't want to talk. But if your friend does, it can help to remember and to talk about the good times when the person was alive.
It's also OK for you to sometimes cry with your friend who feels so sad. Kate wanted Sarah to be her old self, but that doesn't always happen right away. Some sadnesses stick with a person for a long time. At first, the person may not feel like playing or having fun like he or she used to. After more time goes by, most people do feel happy again even though they still miss the person who died. Children tend to grieve differently to adults. They puddle jump grief — being upset about grandad in one moment and playing with Lego the next.
Conversations may take place over several days, weeks, months as they get more curious. Grief is a journey: every member of the family may be on the same train, but everyone is looking out of a different window, with a different view. For more information on talking to children about bereavement visit cruse. A: When you jump on a trampoline, you take your boots off. Whats the differnce between a shiny red Corvette and a pile of dead babies? I do not have a shiny red Corvette in my garage.
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